Hospitality: Eager, Not Just Willing Featured

Written by  Linda Brumley -- San Diego, CA Tuesday, 28 July 2015 10:06

linda brumleyThe following article was originally published in The Hospitality Handbook.

"Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling." -- 1 Peter 4:9

"A generous man will prosper; he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed." -- Proverbs 11:25

Three or four years into our marriage, I found myself still resisting my husband’s magnanimous open-door policy, for which I was ill-equipped, both in temperament and in talent. I preferred solitude to company. I was a novice cook, an uptight perfectionist and a penny-pincher on a limited budget.

Ron’s generous invitations were frequent; extended to friends and strangers, singles and families, his offer could be for coffee and dessert or for a several weeks’ stay with three meals a day and laundry privileges. Sometimes these ideas were discussed with me in advance and sometimes not. It was obvious; my husband had a heart for people and a deep desire to meet their needs.

Although I was religious and a Bible reader, I had either not noticed or not comprehended the command to “offer hospitality to one another without grumbling” (1 Peter 4:9). I did not offer—my husband did. What I did was grumble!

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